Little Ones Magazine

Staying mentally and physically healthy

2012-02-16T16:46:00.000-05:00

Everyone needs a little motivation now and then. I need A LOT :) In my driveway every Monday Wednesday and Friday, I host a bootcamp in my driveway. My friends that attend have all laughingly told me how grateful they are for the punishment I impose on them. What they may not realize is how grateful I am to have THEM expecting ME out there ready to lead the workout three days a week. I get a great workout and they get a free butt kickin! Honestly, I think I am getting the better end of the deal. My girls see me set up the "gym" while we wait on the bus which I think reinforces to them my commitment to staying healthy and I can start my day here at Little Ones with a fresh outlook! Share your passions my friends ... it can be quite rewarding!
Take Care,
Kerrie

Hey! From Kerrie :)

2012-02-02T10:57:00.000-05:00

Hello everyone! Kerrie with Little Ones here. I will be taking over the blog from where Kiran left off. I am NO writer, and Kiran is an EXCELLENT writer and blogger so please be patient with me.

As creative director for Little Ones, I hope to post crafty all the things I do with my 2 girls (and the ones I do when I am hiding in my garage studio). You also might want to hear about what keeps me sane while working at home with my husband. That is a tall order. We have been working side by side for 13 years ... in the same home office. So stay tuned and wish me luck, I am jumping in with both feet!

Peace!

Kerrie

Tiana, Cinderella, and Rapunzel. OH MY!

2011-10-06T22:28:00.000-04:00

Simply said, Disney on Ice rocks. Never been? Well I'm sure I'm not the first to tell you that you're missing out. As cliche as it may sound, visiting Walt Disney World is truly magical. But having the beloved characters perform on ice right in front of your eyes is just as magical itself, and a heck of a lot closer.

We've personally seen the Monsters Inc., Toy Story III and a "regular" Disney on Ice productions and I've been so incredibly impressed. But when I heard that Disney on Ice Dare to Dream was coming to town, I knew this would be one of our favorites. With 3 girls, ages 3, 5 and 7, how could it not be?!

The show began with an incredibly upbeat number including all of the Disney favorites, perfect for getting the little ones prepared. And then it was time for Princess Tiana from The Princess and the Frog. Complete with all of the characters, Naveen, Louis and Ray, the segment was the perfect warm up. And then came the beloved Cinderella. Though the entire story is not acted out, it's amazing how they tie it all in together. The costumes are perfect and characters believable. I even found myself clapping to the music and singing the well-known tunes (did I really just say that out loud?!) Yes, it's true; one of the best things about these shows is that parents will actually enjoy them as much as their kids!

By and large, our favorite, and the part the kids could not wait to see, was Rapunzel. From the famed movie Tangled, Rapunzel and Flynn took to the ice and captured the show. Cascading hair and characters who dangled from the ceiling were some of the exciting effects that warmed the hearts of the families in the packed the Time Warner Cable Arena. See this short video that we took - such a small sampling of the show that included all of the favorite tunes including She's Got a Dream, Mother Knows Best and At Last I See the Light (yes, I was singing those, too).

An amazing final act included all of the famed princesses - Snow White, Belle, Ariel, Tiana, Jasmine, Cinderella and Rapunzel ... for girls of all ages, a real dream come true.

Dare to Dream is still in Charlotte for the rest of this weekend - Friday, Saturday and Sunday October 7 - 9 and tickets are still available! If you've got a Disney or princess lover ... this is surely a MUST DO!

Raising a Reader

2011-09-15T20:53:00.000-04:00

School’s back in session and parents around the country are looking to not only get their children’s education up to speed, but to do what they can to surpass it. But studies have shown that it’s not just about working with your little ones during the school year. The true benefits can be found from day one, and even before, as Dan Gilbert of the Primrose Schools illustrates below.

Raising a Child that Loves to Read

by Dan Gilbert

Decades of research have shown that a child develops learning habits when they have exposure to books from very early in life. When a parent reads to the child, the rhythm of the language becomes familiar, which causes verbal skills to develop at an accelerated rate. Love for reading starts from the point the books are introduced – as an infant or even before birth. Many people claim that a child will remember the music and stories they hear while still in the womb. Children do recognize their mother’s voice immediately after birth.

Making the time to read together is essential if you are going to raise a child that loves to read. Robert Needlman, M.D., author of the book Dr. Spock’s Baby Basics and member of the Primrose Schools Education Advisory Board, believes you should begin to spend time reading with a child from infancy, continue through toddler years, preschool and beyond. “There’s no prescription for this, the only prescription is to allow some time each day that you can sit down, connect with your child, and read together. The main thing is to allow it to occur in a way that’s joyful, that conveys enjoyment to the child – from enjoyment the rest will follow.”

Consistent effort to spend time each day reading together as your child grows is essential for the development of a future reader. Whether the story is read just before bed or as part of the evening meal routine, children must hear the spoken word to develop mastery-level language skills. Long before a child starts school, the time spent with books becomes a habit that will carry through life. No one is quite sure which part is more important; the personal connection with the parent or the sound of the spoken word. The primary goal is to embrace reading in a joyful way that engages the child’s interests.

Pictures add meaning for the child when the parent points to the illustrations and reads the words with an animated voice. Even when the words are changed to make the story more personal, the child develops interest in books. Children love to hear their own name, so inserting their name into the storyline will create interest and encourage them to write their own stories later.

Book selection is important to retain the child’s curiosity about reading. Even though the adult tires of reading the same book repeatedly, the child is learning from each pass through the pages. Great books for children include interesting illustrations that convey the meaning of the text on the page. When the words are read aloud, a distinct rhythm will be memorable when the words are read again. The parent’s interests are important when choosing books since the responsibility of making the activity fun falls on the adult.

To prevent fatigue with the same book, check out multiple books from the library and teach the child how to treat the books in the appropriate manner. Replacing books each time the current set comes due is a great way to move into new material and reduce redundancy. Remind the child that the books can be checked out again.

Apply these ideas to create a fun environment that embraces literature to build a foundation for successful readers:

• Age-appropriate books about a wide variety of subjects should be available for each child. When they are able to choose books that interest them, they are more likely to read alone.

• Time each day should be spent reading to children even when they are just toddlers. They should be encouraged to participate in the story.

• Take favorite books along whenever car travel or local errands are on the agenda. Use time waiting to read and develop good habits.

• Ask the child’s school teacher to provide a list of books that are related to school activities. Reading books that reflect their experiences will teach them to look for books as learning sources later in life.

• Older children will read to younger siblings and mimic the voices and other story-telling techniques used by their parents. The child that makes up new stories has taken a significant developmental step to becoming a life-long learner and reader.

Children are born with an insatiable thirst for knowledge. From the earliest days, their future success depends on their ability to master the language. Having books read to them is an essential first step in learning how the language is used in written and oral forms. Each child’s cognitive development requires a supportive and nurturing environment that provides exposure to information in various forms.

Goodbye Summer; Hello School

2011-08-24T15:43:00.000-04:00

Supplies. Books. New teachers and backpacks. It's official: summer is over, and school is back.

I know many moms who feel this day could not have come soon enough. For me, the change is bittersweet. Don't get me wrong - I can't think of a day where for at least 10 seconds I haven't wanted to pull my hair out. Entertaining your kids and lacking structure can challenge even the strongest of us. But on the other hand, the lack of structure, the absence of alarm clocks and the simplicity of choosing each day for itself can be a thing of beauty.

When I had just a young baby, I remember hearing from others - you know, since everyone is always willing to give you unsolicited advice re: parenting - that when your kids get into school, the years fly by. They couldn't have been more right. And for me, each passing summer now means they are another year older, another grade higher.

School does amazing things for kids. Education is just the beginning; the other aspects that are taught and learned are, in my mind, irreplaceable. And ironically enough, as I write this, I've had my office door open 3 - scratch that, now 4 - times, my kids, of course. My little one was just requesting a kiss ... and for that matter, they can open my door and prolong summer for as long as they want. But for now, we'll say goodbye to the swimming pool and instead replace it with recess and after school activities, and save the fun for the weekends.

Good luck with sending your kiddos off and here's to a super school year!

Uh-Oh Theater - Serious Fun for Little Ones!

2011-08-15T21:24:00.000-04:00

I had no idea what to expect out of Uh-Oh Theater. I mean, how well can a 0-3 year-old actually engage in theater?

I was invited to a show today at ImaginOn, one that is running all week long. And I highly suggest it to any of you with little ones ages 3 and under.

I thought about taking the baby (he's almost 5 months) but opted to just take my newly-turned 3 year-old daughter for some quality time together. We arrived right before the show where there was a little interactive area for the wee ones. Then we entered in to the intimate area set up for us. There were three couches and some pillows along the floor; I'd say there were 30-some of us here for the play, and we all picked our seats which were literally right in front of the stage (set on the floor). With easy entry and exits, an engaging scene in front, my little one was engaged from the get-go.

For 30-40 minutes, the kids were entertained with lights, sound and music as Meredith and Mark (a husband and wife team - don't worry, you'd never know it unless you read their bios) who used fabric, instruments, a fan and more. Honestly, I thought they were like two grown two year-olds playing by the way they interacted. The kids thought they were fantastic. Little squeals were intertwined with giggles or a random "look there!" or "it's a cat!". There was one little girl in particular who chose to walk on the stage during the performance and use some of the props. Not to be disturbed by the little audience member, the duo simply let her be and at one point let her engage in their "play".

For the last 10 minutes, the rest of the kids were able to go onto the stage to try their arm at acting. My little girl took the props and did what she'd seen - for instance, she took the same chinese fan and walked around fanning the audience. I was amazed at all that she retained!

So ... back to my original question. How long can a child 3 and under be engaged in theater?
Actually, when the show is created for them, they'll sit the whole time. And they'll even ask for more.

Check out one of the shows this week, put on by The Children's Theater of Charlotte. Or find out more about PlayPlay! Theater by clicking here.

Immunization Awareness Month

2011-08-09T13:29:00.000-04:00

Though quite a controversial subject - August is National Immunization Awareness Month. Guest columnist Amy Wadsworth shares some brief information on immunizing your child and the benefits to doing so.

Immunizations are important to prevent children from diseases that could kill, infect or cripple them. Infants and children should be immunized. Most vaccines are given during the first five to six years of a child’s life.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, children under the age of 5 are susceptible to disease because their immune systems are not built up to fight infection. Vaccinate your child by age 2 and you can protect your child from disease and protect others at child care centers and schools.

Deanna Matthews, child care health consultant with the Gaston County Health Department, works with licensed child care centers and family child care homes to help keep immunizations up-to-date.

Matthews also offers free trainings including Communicable Diseases and Immunizations. This training educates on the various types of communicable diseases and precautions to protect staff and children from contracting and or spreading potential infectious diseases.

"Childcare providers can stay healthier by washing their hands properly and frequently and also maintaining their current immunizations, especially tetanus," says Matthews.

“Vaccines play an important role in protecting the health of children in child care," she continues. "When up-to-date on their immunizations, children are better protected against vaccine preventable diseases.

The benefits extend beyond the individual. Vaccine-preventable diseases cause greater illness in children and vulnerable adults than healthy adults. The greater the number of people immunized, the greater the benefit to the community.”

Childcare centers are required to know the immunization status of children in their care. This information protects the children that the center provides care for as well as their staff.

Some of the vaccines your children need include Hepatitis B, Tetanus, Pertussis (or whooping cough), Polio, Measles, Mumps and Rubella.

Your pediatrician can let you know if your child is up-to-date with his shots; there are also those required for going back to school. Children can also receive immunizations at their local health department and most vaccines for childhood immunizations are provided at no cost.

For more information about immunizations, visit Immunize North Carolina at www.immunizenc.com.

Amy Wadsworth is the Public Information Coordinator for the Partnership for Children of Lincoln & Gaston Counties. She can be reached at 704.922.0900.

Stickers and STUFF

2011-08-04T21:08:00.000-04:00

When I was little, I had a sticker book. It was my most prized possession.
Within the book, which was actually a photo album, were stickers that I'd earned over time.

I distinctly remember some of them: there were the scratch-n-sniff stickers that I'd earned when I didn't cry for a week of kindergarten (I was "that" kid - the one who cried every day). There was the sticker that I got when I toured the power plant where my father worked as a civil engineer. And who can forget that large sticker that I received at Disney World when we had breakfast with Mickey?! That took up almost half of a page of my sticker book. Such memories!

Back then, we worked to earn stickers. It took me a whole week of not crying to earn one sticker. Today, my kids get stickers by the dozen - daily. In fact, just yesterday we went to Trader Joes (automatic 5 stickers per child) and then the library (another one for finishing the scavenger hunt).

It's not just stickers that I'm overwhelmed with, it's STUFF. Literally each day we get more and more STUFF. Candy, little chachki items, stickers, coloring papers; you name it, my kids are getting it. It not only junks up my car and my house, but in my mind, it's devaluing their appreciation for just about anything! They are so programmed to getting something new each and every day - who can blame them? Heck, if I got something new each day, I'd be looking out for it and tiring of it quickly as well.

I don't really have a solution to all of this but more or less just wanted to voice my opinion to see if anyone else is on the same page with me. Am I the only one who is tired of the inordinate amount of items entering their household? Can we (retailers, businesses, friends and family) not slow down on the giving of these items and cut down on our own personal bottom lines while also letting the little ones of today's world gain a true appreciation for earning things?

I'd love to hear your opinion!

Guilt be gone: accepting help from others

2011-07-30T14:26:00.000-04:00

One of the things the experts (books and such) always preach is accepting help when you have a new baby. Well as time goes on, most of us assume that we need to figure it out and get it all done alone.

I've been good with this up until recently. I was a pro at having 3 kids - but with 4, and I'm guessing for those who have kids that are more spaced out, it's really just not possible to give each the attention they deserve in the situations you find yourself in.

In prior days, I didn't understand why someone would get sitter for one (or two) of their children just to take a different one somewhere. Why wouldn't they all go together, I wondered? Now I get it. And I'm trying to accept this newfound knowledge.

My husband was away for 3 days and it's just me myself and I to handle the kids, which is fine. But this morning, for instance, we had a pool party to attend. Why on earth would I think I could take them all and realistically have a good time? Thankfully I was smart enough to know this was not possible. Though one side of me was chirping in that I could do it, I knew that we ALL would have a better time leaving the baby at home with a sitter. And boy, was I right. He got his morning nap in, we got our morning swim (and cake, ice cream and chips) in. I got to swim with my girls and he avoided the swim (what 4 month-old really loves a swim, anyhow?)

Bottom line - don't feel guilty about getting help for one of your kids (or even two) so that you can go take the other to a party, to soccer practice, to a baseball game, or wherever. In the long run, you'll all benefit from it. I know that we certainly did!

5 Ways to "Green" Your Vacation

2011-07-26T20:18:00.002-04:00

Green – it’s such “the buzz!”. Green parties, greening your household, even greening your crafts. Penny Dietz, owner of green i am, is on a mission to help create healthier families and homes, sharing one little dirty secret at a time. Our guest blogger shares her ideals in greening one area you may not have thought of - your vacation.

Have you ever thought of greening your vacay? Whether you’re feeling lime green or kelly green, there’s something for everyone to try. Perhaps you’ll discover these simple and easy tips are not only good for the planet but also good for your wallet!

1. Location, Location, Location – There’s the easy and green option of a staycation, where you take advantage of staying put and exploring your own city – ideally via public transportation and/or bikes. And here in Charlotte, there’s no loss of entertainment options from exploring parks, museums, amusement parks, farms, wineries, spraygrounds, bike paths, fishing, greenways, music and more!

Alternatively, consider a vacation destination where walkability, biking, and/or public transportation will be easily accessible so you won’t have to take cabs or rent a car. If you’re like me and are “looking for a reason” to go to San Francisco, you'll be happy to know it is one of the greenest cities.

Yet another option is staying at a campground where you have everything you really need at your fingertips. That said, regardless of your destination, seek out options for green recreation - a park, a hiking trail, a lake, etc. - and enjoy the fresh air.

2. Planes, Trains and Automobiles – How low carbon can you go? The best strategy – besides walking or biking – is to fill up a seat that’s already going your way. So, hop on a train, a bus, or if you choose to fly, opt for non-stop flights. Alternatively, if you’re like most, pack your car. To increase your fuel efficiency, here are a few “best practice” driving techniques that can help you get more bang for your buck:

· Inflate your tires to the proper psi according to the manual

· Keep your windows rolled up

· Use cruise control

· Don’t brake if you don’t have to

· Drive the speed limit

And when you’re ready for more gas, save some green by visiting gas buddy or cheap gas.

3. Accommodations – Choosing a low-impact place to stay is not only greener, it’s often less expensive. If the weather is nice, look for camping options. Otherwise, check out options for vacation rentals (such as VRBO) and/or environmentally friendly hotels. Regardless of where you stay, here are 3 easy and impactful actions to implement:

· Bring your own toiletries. Think of all the plastics that are used to create tiny bottles of shampoo and conditioner, the added packaging, shipping, etc. Let’s be honest - how many times do you use a full bar of soap at a hotel? Do yourself and the earth a favor and bring your own favorite personal care products.

· Hang a “Do Not Disturb sign” and say no thank-you to housekeeping. Or call housekeeping and tell them you won’t need their services during your stay. This simple act prevents the hotel from wasting water by changing your sheets and towels, wasting electricity by vacuuming, and spraying harsh chemicals all over your toothbrush. Seem too extreme? Then compromise by at least hanging your towel and opting to reuse it.

· Recycle and Reuse. Whether it’s your morning newspaper or otherwise, remember to recycle. Don’t forget your stainless steel water bottle for refilling your daily water supply. And leave the freebies (pens, notepads, etc) behind for the next person.

4. When in Rome – Experience the local culture by eating at local restaurants or visiting a local farmer’s market or grocery. You’ll quickly discover the true “local flavor” of your vacation destination.

5. Unplug – Reduce your energy consumption at home while you’re away be unplugging appliances and fixtures that won’t be in use. While traveling, unplug the DVD players, DS, blackberries, iPhones, etc. and opt for family-friendly games like “I Spy”, “Travel Bingo”, “Car Colors”, etc. A favorite for my family is the “The ABC game”, where we find each letter of the alphabet in order by scouring road signs, passing cars, billboards, etc. And while on vacation, “plug in” to each other by being fully engaged in making memories that will last a lifetime.

This mom can make art!

2011-07-16T02:28:00.003-04:00

My kids love art, especially my middle daughter. We're constantly creating stuff at our house, but it's pretty much the same old basic stuff: stringing pasta, cutting up construction paper and coloring.

Doing art with my kids is actually one of my favored activities ... but the reality is that I am generally just assisting them in their endeavors. So recently I saw a posting about the adult workshops at Small Hands Big Art and was intrigued. A Thursday evening with no kids - a time to go be creative. Me, creative. Why not?! I had no idea what fun I was actually in for.

The workshop I signed up for was a decoupage class. The description said we'd decoupage a whimsical collage on wood with patterned paper, fabric, ribbon and mod podge. I was most interested in the mention of a growth chart; how fun, I thought! None of my kids have a growth chart and they are always measuring themselves. If you're thinking this sounds tough, think again.

There were 8 of us in the class Thursday night. Studio owner Jennifer Bryant was accompanied by Hannah Naish. Together, they gave in-depth instructions on putting together our masterpiece. We'd first come up with a concept. Lucky for some of us (me) they had lots of samples of what we could create (read: copy). Some had come with an idea in mind; I simply wanted a fun growth chart to put in my youngest daughter's room. I was going to use a shabby chic design with her room colors in mind. I used one of the examples and built upon it to make it my own.

We selected fun pieces of paper, ribbon, buttons and more and laid out our individual designs. Our instructors helped us modify, create or whatever else we needed in the process. During this time, we met others, noshed on snacks and some drank wine. Lets see - wine, chocolate and creating with no one hanging on our legs ... what a recipe for success!

photo by: Alison Bella Photography

The beauty in this was that everyone had a different vision in mind and each came out with a different piece in the end. The end results? Gorgeous. Really, you can't get personalized pieces like these that have meaning behind them. The cost of the evening was $40. And for that price I took home a priceless creation, a tremendous feeling of satisfaction and inspiration to make more with my kids.

My finished creation

Not all of the adult workshops have the same theme. Once a month Small Hands Big Art holds these events; last month was "colorful watercolor on stretched canvas"; next month is "hand-carved rubber stamps". Oh, and you get a discount when you sign up for multiple workshops. What a win-win!

If you're looking for a little "me" time, a girls night out or just a chance to let your creativity flow - I'd highly suggest checking one out. You will love it!

Cook with your Kids: Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins (semi-healthy!)

2011-07-11T21:05:00.000-04:00

My kids love to cook, and frankly, so do I. It's a great activity to do together and I always try to sneak in some sort of lesson (healthy eating/math - in regards to the measurements/etc.)

Yesterday I was at our local grocery store with my eldest and asked her what we should make this week. At that moment, I glanced over and saw some chocolate chip muffins - you know, the humongous kind that probably have 800 calories and 30 grams of fat in one - and suggested we make our own. It didn't take too much arm twisting to get her to agree!

I researched some recipes and came up with my own, which is pretty healthy. We just finished baking and trying them and the votes are unanimous ... this recipe's a keeper!

Ingredients:

1 cup all-purpose flour

3/4 cup whole wheat flour

3/4 cup brown sugar

1 teaspoon baking soda

1 teaspoon baking powder

1 egg

1/2 cup applesauce

1/2 cup plain yogurt

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

2 mashed ripe bananas

3/4 cup milk chocolate chips

1. In a large bowl, combine the flour, brown sugar, baking soda and baking powder.

2. In a separate bowl, mix the egg, applesauce, yogurt and vanilla.

3. Make a well in the dry ingredients and mix the wet into the dry.

4. Fold in the bananas and chocolate chips.

5. Fill 12 greased muffin tins about 2/3 full (we used cupcake liners) or until all batter is used.

Bake at 350 degrees for 23'ish minutes (or until a toothpick comes out clean); cool for 5 minutes before removing and enjoying!

** If you prefer, substitute 1/2 cup oil for the applesauce. I personally always use applesauce instead of oil, but that's a personal thing. Oh, and I also use unsweetened applesauce.

***If you want to help your chocolate chips not fall to the bottom, coat them with flour.

Have fun and enjoy them!!

Kids in the Car

2011-07-05T16:18:00.001-04:00

We've all been there before; you've got to run in the post office/drug store or any quick stop where you just know you'll be in and out. What would the harm be in leaving your little one(s) in the vehicle while you run in and get it done? You can do it 10x's quicker if it's just you ....
Or perhaps you're like me and forgetful (brainless, in my case). Believe it or not, many parents actually forget that their child is in the car.

Guest columnist Amy Wadsworth, Public Information Coordinator for the Partnership for Children of Lincoln and Gaston Counties, reports on why you should never leave a child alone in the car - and what to do to prevent you from forgetting them.

“Beat the Heat, Check the Backseat.”

This is an important saying for caregivers/parents who have children in the back seat of a vehicle.

Did you know in 2010 there were 49 children nationwide that died in cars as a result of hyperthermia? In 2011 there have been 3 already!

Angela Ross, Trauma Program Coordinator with CaroMont Health Trauma Services in Gastonia knows first-hand the effects of leaving children unattended in vehicles.

“It’s a tragic fact that 8 out of 10 deaths are because parents forgot their child was in the vehicle,” Ross said. “I don’t want to see anyone live with that kind of guilt.”

On an 80 degree day, temperatures can exceed 100 degrees in less than 10 minutes, which can be fatal. “Cracking” a window has little to no effect on soaring temperatures.

Children’s temperature regulation systems are less efficient, which means their body temperatures warm 3 to 5 times faster than adults.

Ross said vehicles in the heat are like a convection oven. The windows amplify the heat and trap it inside, she said.

Never leave your child alone in the vehicle!

Here are some safety tips to remember (According to Safe Kids USA):

· Leave your purse, wallet, or briefcase on the floor board of the back seat to remind yourself that your child is in the car. Most deaths are unintentional resulting from forgetting there is a child in the car.

· Put a sticker with a baby picture on the rearview mirror.

· Keep a stuffed animal in the car seat. When placing the child in the car seat, put the stuffed animal up front with the driver.

· Set your cell phone reminder to be sure you dropped your child off at their childcare center.

· Dial 911 immediately if you see a child unattended in a car.

· Lock all vehicle doors and the trunk after everyone is out of the car. Keep keys out of children’s reach.

Check the car and trunks first if a child goes missing.

PFCLG is funded through Smart Start, North Carolina’s award winning early childhood initiative designed to ensure that children enter school healthy.The mission of PFCLG is to serve as a leading advocate and collaborative resource to provide access to high quality services for young children.

Good cookies; great cause

2011-07-01T16:50:00.000-04:00

Oh, wow. I had the honor of being one of the judges for the Cookies for Kids Cancer cookie contest today, and let me just tell you how difficult the decision was! But first let me tell you about the contest:

Stomp, Chomp & Roll, who owns Mama Fu's (Cotswold), Moe's at Northlake Mall, Flying Biscuit (Stonecrest & Cotswold), The Pizza Peel and Monkey Joe's (Park Rd.) teamed up with our local Cookies for Kids Cancer team by soliciting cookie recipes. Out of all of the entrants, seven sweet treats were chosen to bring the goods down to The Flying Biscuit in Cotswold where I was joined by 7-year-old Grier Christenbury (Cookies for Kids Cancer Representative), Kathleen Purvis (Food Editor for The Charlotte Observer) and Lisa Frame (Mommyality). Our job? Tasting and commenting on the oh-so-delicious final products.

We judged on appearance, creativity and (natch) taste while also providing comments.

Let me first say I am a true chocoholic, but I wanted to give each option a fair chance.
Lucky for me, most of the cookies included some type of chocolate. Most also required a few tastes, just to be sure (of course!)

The second place winner was a close runner-up in my book; the Old Fashioned Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Cookie had chunky peanut butter and lots of chips ... it was the perfect texture! But the Millionaire Shortbread won by a landslide. Soft shortbread, topped with a layer of caramel and finally a layer of thick, creamy chocolate was to die for.

The Millionaire Shortbread will be sold at all Stomp, Chomp & Roll restaurants through September 30 so you can go try one yourself! And the best news? ALL proceeds will go to Cookies for Kids Cancer.
So go try one (or a few) out for yourself; I promise you won't be disappointed!

Grier Christenbury, one of the other judges

A day's trip: Baxter Village!

2011-06-28T16:42:00.002-04:00

In the May issue of Little Ones, we offered up lots of ideas for fun (and mostly) inexpensive outings for you and your kiddos. I've done this one before, but decided to take my crew of 4 out with me to Baxter, which is adorable and oh-so-close to Charlotte. Below is what we had in the magazine:

The Fun Begins in Baxter

A short jaunt from most locations, don't be fooled by the fact that you're going to Ft. Mill. In just 15-20 minutes, you'll be to this new destination, located right off of I-77.

Enter Baxter Village - but do not be swayed by all the super cute shops on your sides! Proceed straight until you see Allison Park a quaint little park with old-school play sets, plenty of room to roam, and ample shading as well. Take a stroll on the easy-to-navigate trails and wander over bridges your little one will love. Worked up an appetite? Head back onto Main Street and pop into Cupcrazed, a new Cupcake shop that actually offers café-style seating. Try the Chocolate Buttercream or Reese's cupcakes (our personal faves) or any of the many others offered. Grab a cup of joe before heading back out. A short stroll down the street will have you at an "updated" playground (who can play too much?!) where your kids can let their sugar high get the best of them. If they're tired enough, perhaps you can persuade them to stop into one of the boutiques - Page 6 for couture clothes, Mermaids, Monkeys, etc.! for gifty-things, or The Bump Maternity Boutique - a must stop for mommies -to-be or brand new mamas. A drive-through Starbucks is on your way out, the perfect treat for the ride home.

I can't even express to you how adorable Cupcrazed is. A super-fun environment, this storefront has several flavored cupcakes, bulk candy, cake pops, coffee, drinks and more in a whimsical environment. After playing at Allison Park and exploring the trail, we headed over to enjoy $2 Tuesday (all cupcakes for 2 bucks!) Check out some of these photos!

If you're up a low-cost, yummy day, head out to Baxter Village ... we barely touched on the playgrounds available since we had the baby with us, but there's lots to do and see. Oh, and there's also the Peach Stand just about a mile away which has lots of fresh, local foods and fruit. We picked up some yummy corn and peaches to have with dinner.

Have fun!

Go the F&^$ to Sleep - a review!

2011-06-22T16:29:00.000-04:00

As seen on www.momscharlotte.com ...

Go the F%$* to Sleep

This is a bit of a different product for me to review, but after hearing time and again about this book, I just had to read it.

Go the F&^$ to Sleep by Adam Mansbach debuted on June 14 and is making waves across the globe. For anyone who's battled bedtime, this book is a must read.

A parody on all of the "normal" happy-go-lucky, peaches and cream bedtime books we read our little ones, this one is for the parent who has often muttered 4-letter words under their breath (or even aloud) as they argue their way past water, one last hug, or any of the other universal excuses. I have yet to meet a parent who has not been in this predicament; and yes, I personally know this scenario more than I wish to admit. It's a rare night when I don't have this sort of battle and don't end up cursing aloud.

Masbach ever-so-eloquently handles the one last book, the water request, the bathroom break and the questions children will ask with such satire and humor, you find yourself feeling his anger building as if it's your very own. Surely for some of us (ahem) it's a case of relating all too well.

If you're turned off by dark humor, don't read this; if swearing bothers you, you mustn't get it. But for anyone who's ever wanted to scream the title of this book at the top of your lungs, I highly suggest you get look into it. If nothing else, you'll get some great laughs and realize that you're definitely not alone.

Guest Blogger: 10 Ways to Save Money Today!

2011-06-20T11:16:00.004-04:00

I have yet to meet any woman who doesn't get excited about saving money. Even if she's not a coupon clipper, what female doesn't love a good sale?

I (e-)met Richelle Luchkowec a few weeks ago; she had so many great suggestions on how to save money. She's so good at it, in fact, that she's turned it into one of her jobs. Read on for some of Richelle's suggestions on how you, too, can keep those dollars in your pocketbooks:

10 Easy Ways to Save Money Today by The Carolina Clipper

1. Go to the ATM. Yes, that's right. To save money you need to get cash out of the ATM. When the cash is gone, this is your sign to stop spending! Three years ago we decided to get cash out for things like groceries and eating out. This ensures that your budget has boundaries and creates a clear stop sign.

2. Stay Put. With a little planning and creativity a staycation can feel like a real summer vacation. You'll save a lot of money and actually get some rest, too! Everyone takes off work and joins in the fun. Use our Charlotte staycation ideas list to find free activities.

3. Be a Picky Eater. If you're going out to eat, pick a restaurant where kids eat free. Also, be on the lookout for Groupons, a daily deals site with local deals such as paying $10 for $20 worth of food. You can also purchase a $25 gift certificate for only $10 from Restaurant.com. We plan our date nights around these special offers and it's a real money saver.

4. Click Around. Free music and books are just a click away! Use Pandora internet radio to create a personal music station. I use this on my computer (while I work), on my TV (while I cook), and on my iPhone (while I workout). You can rent e-books from your library and can always find free e-book downloads from sites like Amazon or iTunes by searching "free ebooks".

5. Money Really Does Grow on Trees. When you clip coupons it's like clipping money out of the newspaper (which is made from trees--get it?). Match a sale with a coupon and you've got a 50% (or more) savings! I saved $3,769.22 the first year I used coupons and reduced my weekly grocery/toiletry budget to just $75 per week. Not sure where to start? Check out my 5 Easy Steps to Slash Your Grocery Budget in Half. Better yet, come to a workshop because learning in person is so much easier!

6. Get in the Kitchen. Even if you don't clip one single coupon you can still save money by simply planning your meals. This removes the 5 p.m. dinner stress and prevents you from eating out-again. Even better, plan your meals around what's on sale. Example: if Chicken is Buy 1 Get 2 Free then you should look at your favorite recipes and plan a few chicken meals.

7. Be Careful Passing Gas. One of my most embarrassing moments happened because I passed gas - a gas station that is. I knew I was heading to the SC border (where gasoline is much cheaper) later that day. I thought I had enough gas to get me through my errands but alas, my van died at a busy intersection. A friend quickly came to rescue the kids while I waited with police for my husband to leave work and bring that silly red gasoline container. I kept saying to the officers, "I'm so sorry, I know this is not what you were trained to do". The moral: You should look for ways to save money on gas BEFORE your low fuel light turns on. How? Use the Gas Buddy or Cheap Gas app to find the cheapest gas in your area, keep your car maintained, and use BiLo's Fuel Perks program.

8. Toss it Out. Look for things you may not be using anymore and get rid of things that no longer fit your life. Do you really need all of those cable channels, that many cell minutes, or that gym membership that you don't use? Getting rid of financial clutter helped us save $2520 this year!

9. Check your credit. You are entitled to receive one free credit report every 12 months. These days, credit reports are being used for everything from setting insurance rates to evaluating job candidates. Making sure your report is accurate can save you money!

10. Shop for Christmas in January. Shop AFTER a holiday (Valentines, Easter, Thanksgiving, etc) for cards, decorations, and gift wrap and keep them for the next year.

Richelle lives in Charlotte, NC and blogs about practical tools to make saving money easy and fun. She teaches coupon workshops, volunteers at her church food bank, and enjoys finding family-friendly activities in the Carolinas.

A tribute to Father's Day

2011-06-19T19:00:00.000-04:00

We all have memories of our childhood, and nothing is more special than those shared with our moms and dads. In honor of Father's Day, I wanted to touch on one that I remember about mine.

I can't remember exactly how old I was, but I'm thinking it was around 13 or 14 - a tough age for any female, and that much tougher for the parents of. My dad was always very in tune with me and knew my personality well ... and truthfully, I've always been a bit (ok, a lot) Type A. Anyhow, it was for my birthday, again, my 13th or 14th, and my dad had this poem framed for me. Actually, he typed it out and signed it and had it matted and framed. At the time, I didn't understand it much; it was a strange gift in my mind, but somehow it resonated with me. I knew that it came with so much meaning, and yet I didn't quite understand why.

That piece went to college with me; it went to grad school with me. And when I moved to Charlotte, it came with me again. I'm sorry to say that I can't put my finger on it now; after 3 moves, it somehow got lost in transition. But the name of the poem is still with me: Just For Today. The gist of it was relaxing, being yourself and being true to you (a teenage girl with Type A, remember?) When times were stressing me, I'd remember to read it and think of my dad.

I did a lot of searching online and came up with a popular poem entitled "Just For Today". I'm not sure that it's 100% verbatim, but it sure is close. In honor of Father's Day, I post this for you ... I hope you all have such wonderful fathers whose actions have stayed with you as well.

Happy Father's Day to your dad, your spouse, your loved one or significant other. Enjoy.

Just for today I will be happy. This assumes what Abraham Lincoln said is true: 'Most folks are about as happy as they make their mind up to be.' Happiness comes from within; it is not a matter of externals.

Just for today I will try to adjust myself to what is; not try to adjust everything to my own desires. I will take my family, my business, and my luck as they come and fit myself to them.

Just for today I will take care of my body. I will exercise it, care for it, nourish it, not abuse or neglect it, so that it will be a perfect machine for my bidding.

Just for today I will try to strengthen my mind. I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought, and concentration.

Just for today I will exercise my soul in three ways: I will do someone a good turn and not get found out. I will do at least two chores I don't want to do, as William James suggests, just for exercise.

Just for today I will be agreeable. I will look as well as I can, speak diplomatically, act courteously, be liberal with praise, criticize not at all, nor find fault with anything, and not try to regulate or improve anyone.

Just for today I will try to live through this day only, not tackle my whole life problem at once. I can do things for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep them up for a lifetime.

Just for today I will have a program. I will write down what I expect to do every hour. I may not follow it exactly, but I will have it. It will eliminate two pests: hurrying and indecision.

Just for today I will have a quiet half hour by myself and relax. In this half hour sometimes I will think of God, so as to get a little more perspective into my life.

Just for today I will be unafraid. Particularly, I will be unafraid to be happy; to enjoy what is beautiful; to love; and to believe that those I love, love me.

CAVES to open at The Schiele Museum

2011-06-17T14:49:00.000-04:00

After viewing a successful exhibit called Pirates! last year, I was super excited to get a sneak peak at CAVES which is opening tomorrow (6/18) at The Schiele Museum in Gastonia. I visited yesterday as they were putting the finishing touches on CAVES and can't wait to take my own little ones back.

My kids have enjoyed visits to the permanent exhibits at the museum in the past, but these temporary ones always keep it exciting with new and different things to learn about. As I entered in, with Amy Ballard as my tour guide, I pictured my kiddos going through and navigating the deep, dark cavernous environment.

Created completely in house with Tony Passour at the helm of the project, CAVES showcases 40+ animals including fruit bats, a baby owl, baby bobcats and more in a climate-controlled, sensory-loaded atmosphere. Yes, one of the caves is a mere 56 degrees and you'll hear water dripping and see it as well, making you feel completely immersed in the subject. Kids can enjoy interactive games, dress up opportunities, daily spelunker tours and even mini caves to crawl on and through.

"Some museums take advantage of traveling exhibits," says Passour; "we found that we can produce an exhibit of a lot higher quality for a lot less cost. We've recycled components of Pirates! and it's allowed us to be selective of the content. We were able to tailor it completely to our guests."

"Being in something really helps people learn," he concludes. I couldn't agree more. Both boys and girls will really enjoy this interactive exhibit, which opens tomorrow (June 18). It's an outing that is definitely worth taking!

Super Summer Craft

2011-06-16T13:37:00.000-04:00

I just picked my kids up from camp at the Weddington Activity Center where they take gymnastics. They're in a tumble and art class and they brought home the cutest craft! I'm stealing their idea to share with you, since I'm sure you have all of the materials already in your house.

You will need:
* empty water bottles (1 per fish)
*square pieces of tissue paper (great way to use this up after a birthday party/gifts that you get!)
*googly eyes
*construction paper

1. Take an empty water bottle and let your little one glue the tissue paper all over the fish. Some may make a pattern/design, and some may just glue randomly.
2. Once the tissue paper is dry, twist the bottom half of the bottle (this will resemble the tail).
3. Cut out fins for fish from construction paper and glue on.
4. Glue on googly eyes.
5. They taped on fishing line so that you can hang it up; I"m sure you can use any type of string/etc. you like.

Have fun!

Summer!

2011-06-14T14:00:00.000-04:00

It's officially here ... and I personally couldn't be happier. Unfortunately I didn't completely forego my alarm clock as I had hoped; I'm still up by 6 a.m. but somehow not having to rush anyone out the door makes it easier on all of us.

When my husband got home last night at 8 p.m., I had 3 of the 4 kids in bed and was BEAT. But there's something so settling about having all of my kids home; I can't explain it, but I just feel balanced, like no one is missing. Did they make me a little nutty here and there? Of course. Did I want to hide in my closet for a few minutes? Maybe once or twice (I didn't do it). But enjoying the books, swimming with 3 of them late afternoon while the baby napped in the stroller, and watching a few minutes of Kate Plus 8 were all so enjoyable.

Summer break is what, 10 weeks? It's a "glass half full/half empty" type of thing. To me, 10 weeks is a really short time; I want to enjoy every minute of it. If it means getting up at 6 a.m. and pulling late nights to get my work done, they are all sacrifices I'm willing to make. Let's just hope this positive attitude continues!

Charlotte Mecklenburg Library Guest Blogger on the Summer Reading Programs!

2011-06-10T14:05:00.002-04:00

Summer is here, and no doubt it's a hot one already. Some of your kids have probably said those two dreaded words: I'm Bored.

Here at Little Ones, we are huge advocates of the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library and support all of their wonderful programs and events. This summer, they've got a wonderful reading program lined up for kids. It's FREE, it earns them PRIZES, it keeps them COOL and it helps them LEARN. Read more from our guest blogger, Arden McLaughlin of the Charlotte Mecklenburg Library:

Summer Reading Fun Begins!

All year I encourage each of you to find great books for your little ones through my Book Corner article. As an avid reader, I can’t think of a time of the year that curling up with a good book doesn’t sound like a great idea. But summer is by far my favorite time to read. I think it takes me back to the days when I could go to my local library, check out any book I wanted and read it all day long without the threat of bed time or homework!

Charlotte Mecklenburg Library wants your little ones to experience the same joy this summer through its summer reading clubs for all age groups (even you, parents!).

Summer Reading runs from June 15 to August 10, 2011, offering clubs for babies/pre-schoolers, children, teens, and adults. Each club challenges participants to read all summer long for fun, enjoyment and rewards provided by community sponsors. But the real reward of the program is reading itself. Research shows that students who read at least 20 minutes a day during the summer are more likely to read on or above grade level when returning to school in the fall. And it is important for parents to read to babies and toddlers, too. Research tells us that when you read to your young child, you naturally touch on important pre-reading “building blocks” that begin to develop at birth and must be mastered in order for your little “story lover” to graduate to “reader” status.

Sign up (beginning June 15) at your nearest library (all locations except Main Library) to keep reading, learning and having fun all summer long. Teens must sign up online, but can use the free public computers at the library to do so. For more information on Summer Reading, visit www.cmlibrary.org/summerread beginning June 15.

There is a limited supply of prizes for all who participate in summer reading clubs and complete their reading logs. This year’s sponsors are Wendy’s, Jason’s Deli, Weyerhaeuser, and Robek’s Juice on 5349 Ballantyne Commons Parkway.

As much as our little ones enjoy rewards, I encourage you to talk with them about the real rewards being the privilege of getting to choose their own books, read at their leisure, and open their horizons to new and exciting worlds. Reading is such a gift! Relish that gift this summer.

--Arden McLaughlin, Charlotte Mecklenburg Library

Happy Reading!! :)

Kiran

Lovable Little Monsters

2011-06-09T18:53:00.000-04:00

For those of you who don't know, I do product reviews on www.momscharlotte.com. Here's a post of the latest product my kids and I reviewed!

Some cuddly little monsters entered our house this past week … and my kids just can't get enough of them.

The Alphabeasts, plush, educational animals, were designed by two dads to help kids learn their ABC's. Each one depicts one of the 26 letters on it - the front has the upper case and the back the lower.

My kids each got one with "their" letter on it (the first letter of their name) and they were simply ecstatic about them. Actually, we got them on Sunday and since they've each carried them around to the car, to the dinner table and even to bed with them. Wherever my kids have gone, so has their new little letter friend!

Though I've closed the door on any more stuffed animals in our house, the Alphabeasts reinforce letters and also have fun names to go with them. I can hardly compare this to your everyday teddy bear. Each one comes with a card that explains their name and their characteristics/physical attributes. They are very well made; great fabrics, solid stitching and also washable. I love the size (15") but hope that sometime in the future they come out with baby beasts so that we can get a whole set of them! These are super for teaching letters to your little ones and adding some imaginative play along with it.

Find out more about these cuddly creatures by visiting www.thealphabeasts.com.

Read more: http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2011/06/09/2363358/lovable-little-letter-monsters.html#ixzz1Op1XFCbm

(as seen on http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2011/06/09/2363358/lovable-little-letter-monsters.html)

Water, Water Everywhere ... Inexpensive Fun with your Little Ones!

2011-06-08T15:14:00.002-04:00

It's crazy how much time kids can spend playing with water. Sure, a hose is always good - but conserve our resources instead and let the kids play for hours with little cost involved. Try these easy, enjoyable activities with your kiddos!

Art with Water: Break out the paintbrushes and sponges and a bucket of H2O and let your little ones go to work decorating the driveway.

Creativity from the Kitchen: Fill a pot with water and set out measuring cups, wooden spoons, etc. See what fun your kids can cook up!

Just Add Water: Kids have the most fun with the simplest of things - a few buckets of water and a couple of spoons is all it require.

Cold Potato: Fill a water balloon with water; instead of Hot Potato, this one's cold. Don't drop it!

Water War: Equip the kiddos with water guns, turkey basters, sponges and water balloons. Need I say more?

Have any fun water games to share? Comment below!

4 days to a confident swimmer

2011-06-06T12:51:00.001-04:00

My kids have all done swimming lessons at Charlotte Swim Academy in the past, but typically we do the once-a-week deal. Over the summer, however, they have classes where you go for four days in a row.
The crash-course, if you will, is a great way to get your little one acclimated with the water - or so I've heard. And after hearing the rave reviews, I decided to give it a whirl myself.

Since we just added our newest addition to the mix 11 weeks ago, I'd taken a break from swimming. I'd taken my 5 year-old to the Y a few times over the winter, but it truly had been a good while since she or her 2.5 year-old sister had been swimming.

The night before the lessons, the girls were so excited; they couldn't wait. When we met their teachers, they both eagerly jumped in. Though 20 minutes may seem a short time, I personally think it's the ideal amount for them; the fact that they are 1:1 with their instructor gives them the most attention they need in a timeframe where they can remain focused.

Each day was met with the same excitement, a sure sign that something was going right. But the real proof was in the pool; we swam at our neighborhood pool on Saturday and I couldn't believe the confidence they had both gained. Don't get me wrong - we didn't go from fearful to front crawl in one week, but whatever confidence they had lost over the winter was gained back, and then some.

If you've got a little swimmer who's a tad nervous, or perhaps one who's so fearless that he makes you nervous, doing the 4-day classes may be just what the lifeguard would order. You can never be too safe when it comes to swimming.

Gearing Up for Cars 2 ... Enter for your chance to get new gear here!

2011-06-04T06:27:00.001-04:00

Ok, folks - it's time for a giveaway. As we're just weeks away from the premier of Cars 2, we thought it most timely to give away some of the paraphernalia your kiddos will be asking for.

Zak Designs is the leading manufacturer of licensed children’s dinnerware and a top producer of trend-focused everyday table ware and eating-on-the-go products. Whether it’s for children, or the whole family, Zak makes mealtime fun. Their products (as seen on zak.com) are so popular; chances are good you already have some, but surely you've at least seen them.

We're giving away a 4 piece Mealtime Set. They are available in either McQueen or Mater and the winner can choose whichever you'd like!

We're choosing one of our followers to win. That's right - all you have to do is be a follower of this blog and we will randomly select one on Tuesday June 7 to win this fun prize!

Want to leave a comment? I'd love to hear from you! :)

Girls Night (plus a boy) Out!

2011-06-02T20:51:00.000-04:00

I know I vent here kinda often, and I'd hate for you to think it's all doom and gloom. The fact is, I really enjoy hanging with just my kids ... and this evening we had a blast.

My husband was going out tonight (I'll keep my mouth shut) so I had the kids to myself. It took quite a bit of planning and lots of options to go through as we prepared for our girls night (oops - almost forgot the baby - girls plus a boy). Lets face it: life with 3 little opinions plus a needy newborn takes a lot of planning and preparation.

We headed out around 4:30 and started on our way to Justice. We needed a gift for a birthday party over the weekend, and the mom had requested "anything sparkly". I knew we'd find just the thing for the almost-6-year-old; plus the entire store is 40% off right now. Nice! My little guy hung in the infant carrier while my 7 year-old and I perused the store; my other two were enthralled with the many colorful add-on items they have (caution to prospective shoppers: this is a little girl's dream-come-true). When it was all said and done, we found a super cute sparkly tank and purse for our party on Sat. AND found cute shirts and necklaces for our twinkie friends (actually they are triplets but only the two girls are having the party on Sunday). Let me tell you that the joy of shopping starts EARLY for girls. As if you didn't know, right?! I'm not sure who had more fun - me or my gals. Fun mom - check!

From Justice we headed over to Earth Fare for their Kids Eat Free night. Every time I go I feel like I'm committing highway robbery. For $19, I got a great, giant salad, 3 of my kids each got their HEALTHY kids meals, a container of spinach, blueberries, a bag of carrots, some healthy trail mix, two yogurts, all-natural deodorant and a bottle of water. I know the perception is that Earth Fare can be pricey, but if you work it correctly, you really can get some great deals. Thrifty mom - check!

My eldest had picked up some BFF necklaces for the twinkie (triplet girls) friends who live down the street, so when we got home, we walked them over. My Jaiden (7) was SO excited to give them to the girls ... remember when BFF necklaces were so important in your childhood? Adorbs.

We rushed home as the lightning was striking (mom of the year, walking with baby and kids as a thunderstorm starts??) and I had them ALL in bed before 7:45 p.m. Punctual mom? When it comes to bedtime ... CHECK!

Hope your day was as enjoyable as mine! :)

Greetings from Looney Land

2011-05-29T14:12:00.000-04:00

Looking back on this week, this last two months, actually, I realized a common theme: I feel that I'm slowly losing my mind.

All kidding aside, I've always been one to keep things "up top". Sure I've tried the Day Timer planner and I've got my calendar plugged into my i-Phone, but truly I'm generally always able to remember things just from, well, remembering them. But since having this 4th baby, I'm slowly forgetting everything.

This past Monday I completely bombed on dialing in to a conference call. WHAT?? This has never happened to me; I NEVER forget a meeting/appointment. But I did. Thank goodness my counterparts were understanding.

Then on Wednesday, I was rushing (story of my life). I had pumped and fed the baby and had 90 minutes to load all 4 kids up, head to get gas (I was on empty), hit the Teeter and get my eldest to gymnastics for her 6 p.m. class. I gunned it out of the garage ... and totally creamed my side view mirror. This wouldn't have been a big deal had I not backed into (and left hanging) a mailbox 7 weeks prior to. W.T.H.

These things are just not like me. I am slacking on checking my first grader's folder and I can barely remember a conversation from yesterday. I'd like to think things will get better once my 10-week-old gets older and starts sleeping through the night - but honestly I think it's a result of having too much on my plate. Or 4 kids ... or hormones ... or the fact that I'm 35. Or, maybe I just need to chill out a bit. Yeah, that sounds like a good theory. I think I'll stick with that one for now. Now what was I supposed to do next?!!

Have a great weekend!

Totally Tuned In

2011-05-23T14:56:00.002-04:00

If you're familiar with the product reviews I do on www.momscharlotte.com, you already know that I'm a fan of the Kidz Bop CD's. My husband, on one hand, will straight up turn on 95.1 or other related stations with the kids in the car. I'm not opposed to this, but kids will only be kids for so long ... why not let them do the kid things?

Kidz Bop CD's are great because they're a win-win; you get to sing along with tunes that you like and your kids get a more "friendly" version of them.

So this past weekend I was sent a copy of their new Monster Ballads CD. One look at the playlist and I was sold. Seriously; who wouldn't want to rock out to Every Rose Has Its Thorn, The Flame or the famed Don't Know What You Got Till Its Gone?! It was a true walk down memory lane. Before popping it in, I had to warn my kids that they wouldn't know any of the tunes - they needed to give them a chance. But after playing the CD twice, they were also sold!

Now: I've got a free copy I want to send to one of you. If you want to enter, here's what to do:

1. Comment here with the name of your favorite monster ballad.

2. Go to our facebook page (www.facebook.com/littleonesmag) and post a comment on our wall - simply name your favorite monster ballad there.

Want a list to choose from?

Go to: http://www.kidzbop.com/music/kidz-bop-collections/Monster-Ballads for a list or find a few more at www.amazon.com/Monster-Ballads-Platinum-Disc-Set/dp/tracks/B0009XTXE2/ref=dp_tracks_all_1#disc_1.

Don't leave me hanging here; I know I'm not the only one who loved lots of these songs!! :)

"That's disgusting ..."

2011-05-21T16:22:00.000-04:00

My middle daughter has been so disrespectful lately. It seems that every time I serve her any type of food, I get some type of complaint. Either "ewww", "awwww" or "that's disgusting" is what she'll tell me when I bring her food over.

It's been going on for a good week or two, and I've warned her. And this morning, we had it. She asked for strawberries for a snack. As we were getting in the car, she got her baggie of strawberries - cut and washed ... and guess who was not happy? Actually it was her - but as a result, neither was I.

She didn't get her strawberries, and she didn't get anything else for the next two hours until lunchtime. At the grocery store, she wasn't allowed to have any of the snacks that were out for sampling. I felt horrible; she kept saying she was starving. But each time I reminded her that she should not disrespect the food that she is served. A woman in the store over heard our conversation and gave me the thumbs up. And I still feel strongly about what I did. Now the question is - will she remember this in the future? Or will she still complain?

And when it comes to you - how do you handle food complaints? I know I'm not the only lucky one to encounter them!

A healthy snack your little ones will LOVE

2011-05-19T08:45:00.000-04:00

Homemade Granola Bars

This is super easy and my kids absolutely LOVE them. Adjust quantities as desired; if you like more peanut butter, add it. Want more raisins or chocolate chips? Throw them in! You really can't go wrong with these! Enjoy them! :)

Ingredients

2 cups oats
3/4 cup packed brown sugar
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 cup all-purpose flour
3/4 cup raisins or other dried fruit (optional)
1/2 cup honey
1 egg, beaten
1/2 cup vegetable oil OR applesauce (I make mine with applesauce)
1 mashed ripe banana
1/2 cup peanut or almond butter
1/2 cup mini chocolate chips (optional - my kids love them!)

Directions

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Generously grease a 9x13 inch baking pan.
In a large bowl, mix together the oats, brown sugar, cinnamon, flour and raisins/fruit. Make a well in the center and pour in the honey, egg, oil/applesauce; mix in the banana and nut butter. Mix well and fold in the chocolate chips. Pat the mixture evenly into the prepared pan.
Bake for 30 minutes in the preheated oven until the bars begin to turn golden at the edges. Cool for 5 minutes; cut into bars while still warm. If you allow the bars to cool completely, they'll be too hard to cut.
Store in the refrigerator in an air-tight container.

Stress-free = a Happy Birthday for ME! (actually for my daughter) ...

2011-05-17T14:13:00.000-04:00

So I had mentioned my party plans for this past weekend - I just had to recap and say I'm so proud of myself for (just this once) doing as little as possible. Literally. I booked the date, sent out invites (though a friend told me I should've done an e-vite) and ordered a cake. That's it!

Brian at Noah's Art called to confirm a few days before and to get a head count. He told me to remember three things - the cake, the candles and the drinks. Now that I could handle.

My daughter (Deja - turning 5) wanted a butterfly cake. I found this super cute one at Decadent Designs Bakery (www.decadentdesignsbakery.com/) . We did a chocolate cake (hel-lo, what other flavors are there?!) with chocolate mousse and vanilla pastry cream. It was delish!

It went perfectly with the "Garden" theme that we chose.

One of the things I liked best about Noah's Art (aside from them doing everything) is that the format. The kids came in and played first (perfect to break the ice and let everyone arrived) and then gathered for a story. Brian (the owner) is so good with the kids; he had them engaged and laughing within minutes. For the next hour, they did various parts of a flower pot activitiy intertwined with play time break-outs (about 5 minutes each). This seemed to keep the kids' attention and everything flowed perfectly.

Here are a few shots of the soiree. But before I post them, I do have to say again that I didn't lift a finger. In fact, I tried to help clean up at the party to which I was told, if you are helping, we did something wrong. I love it! They even did those darned goody bags which I always stress over and the kids all took them home along with their finished product. Success!

The little things

2011-05-15T16:21:00.000-04:00

I know some people have a specific idea of what they want (and don't want) for holidays such as Mother's Day. Sometimes I have something in mind, but often times I don't. This was the case last week. I hadn't an idea of anything specific that I wanted, but now I do.

Here is my list of what I'd truly be the most grateful for; I'm sure most of you moms can agree. Oh, and let me preface by saying that I love my children dearly and am most thankful for them ... but sometimes I just want a little peace.

Here goes:

*I'd like to have a whine-free 15 minutes. Heck, 10 minutes would suffice. I don't think we go longer than 10 seconds around here.

*I'd like to be able to go to the bathroom alone. That hasn't happened in 7 years.

*I'd like to sit through a meal. And trust me - ever since having kids, I can eat FAST. 5-7 minutes of uninterrupted dinner or lunch time would be a real treat.

*A conversation (ok, 3-4 sentences) without being interrupted would be a nice change.

*A lunch packer. I'm too much of a health nut/control freak to have my kids buy lunch, I pack it every night. A healthy lunch-packer would be great.

*And on that note, a lunch un-packer would also make my day. Darn those dishes and cups!

*Cell phone coverage in my house. It's really not a lot to ask these days, right?

I could go on, but I'll end with this one.

What else am I missing from this list? A woman can dream, right?! Share your wishes!

Time ...

2011-05-11T15:12:00.000-04:00

Where does it go?

I was up at 6 a.m. this morning. Well, actually I was up from 1:40 - 2:50 a.m., but I know that doesn't count.

Anyhow, back to 6 a.m. I was up 3 hours in advance of when I needed to leave for preschool drop off. How in the world could I possibly be late when I had so much time to prepare?

Somehow I always find myself fumbling in the last few minutes of countdown to leaving. I always say it's so tough to get out of the house, but it's me who makes it tough. Now granted, in those 3 hours I pumped twice, changed a 2-year-old and the baby, fed the baby, cleaned the table, got my first grader off on the bus, put the finishing touches on two lunches, ate, changed, packed backpacks, wrote a product review and (sigh) who knows what else.

As I am leaving the house - late, mind you, I had missed carpool because I was a few minutes late - I had to run back 3 times to grab things. Then I get to the end of my driveway and think that I forgot my phone. I run back inside (number 4) to get it only to find out it was in my purse.

Now it's 9:15 and I'm wondering again ... where in the world does time go?! I need to go back to bed!

Birthdays

2011-05-09T15:53:00.000-04:00

Tomorrow is my 2nd baby's birthday! I can hardly believe it ... 5 years has absolutely FLOWN by. Where does time go?

I just put the finishing touches on what looks to be a heavenly chocolate cake (http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Chocolate-Candy-Bar-Cake/Detail.aspx) - didn't do the frosting but instead did this perfectly peanut butter (http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Peanut-Butter-Frosting/Detail.aspx) topping. O.M.G. Seriously this is going to be death by peanut butter.

Her party is set for Saturday (Noah's Art is going to take care of the details - with a 7 week old, hosting 15 5-year-olds at my house is NOT what I'm looking to do!) and her cake is coming from Decadent Designs.

I'm always amazed at how much work goes into a birthday even when you attempt to do it as "easy as possible". What gives?

Have you had any success with hosting a low-frills party? And by this I just mean one that didn't require a lot of work from you? Share your thoughts with the rest of us - including me!

Welcome!

2011-05-06T14:48:00.000-04:00

YAY! So we finally have our blog set up. I'm so excited!

Now, I truly need another something to do (ie this blog) like I need a hole in my head ... with 4 kids, ages 7, almost 5, 2.5 and 7 weeks, I'm generally running around like a crazy woman. Let this be your warning! Posts may be at all hours of the day, may contain swear words and may make me seem looney (I swear I'm not - well, maybe just a tad). ANYHOW, I'm so looking forward to staying in touch with you more than just every 3 months. And I hope to hear from you!

Happy Friday!! :)

Kiran

Welcome to the NEW Little Ones Magazine blog!

2011-05-04T10:41:00.000-04:00